I’ve seen a number of stories focusing on the supposed curse surrounding winners of the Oscar for Best Actress since supposedly their marriages appear to go bust in short order. This has naturally been heightened with the horrific timing of allegations regarding Sandra Bullock’s husband, and her having been–of course–blind sided by them. The conventional wisdom seems to be that the husbands, feeling threatened, pull away from their wives out of jealousy.
But here’s another theory: What if the husbands were just dìçkš the entire time? What if the winning of such a major award is empowering to the wife and she realizes that she doesn’t have to put up with it any more? That it gives her a sense of validation that was lacking and she realizes she’s entitled to have someone in her life who makes her feel good about herself? In a number of instances, the woman walked out on the husband, not the other way around.
Why can’t it be viewed as a blessing instead of a curse?
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Originally published November 6, 1992, in Comics Buyer’s Guide #990




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